Posted by Partlycloudy on March 23, 2014, at 10:38:26
In reply to Re: Why does suicide seem like an option?, posted by alexandra_k on March 22, 2014, at 22:22:10
> what would you be doing if he wasn't there?
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> would you spend most of your time about the house, or would you get out more?
> what would you do differently?
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> i'm just thinking that you said he sort of works from home and you don't leave the house much... well... sounds like a recipe for going bonkers, really. don't get me wrong, i don't go much of anyplace at all without a reason (best thing about seeing ot was the walk there and back).
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> i just mean... if you want peace and quiet... maybe the thing to do is take your i-pod on a day hike. or something. instead of seeking it at home. i don't know.
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> i think the progress thing... well... i'm not sure that it is linear with different people at different places on some sort of a hierarchy... but i guess i do think that sometimes people do better apart than they do together.
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> when you feel like he's driving you bonkers... can you get in your car and drive off for a bit?I just tried to drive to a coffeehouse and sit outside and write for a bit. I cried like a baby and managed half an hour. I think I am a lot more depressed than I thought. A little jaunt out every day is what I can manage for now.
I swear I can't believe I don't have moss growing on my north side. Just don't want to move.
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