Posted by HomelyCygnet on January 1, 2014, at 15:53:01
In reply to Re: babble is my journal now, posted by Dr. Bob on December 31, 2013, at 15:29:53
But she doesn't have it not really. You have it. She has no control over it after it is posted. Some think you have drifted into an inappropriate therapeutic relationship with her so there are lots of parallels aren't there? I often get the creepy feeling that this is all written to you. This sort of unpunctuated stream of conscious adolescent oversharing. She claims you are one of the only people people who has ever understood her. And that she has some special understanding of you. How reality based is that? She spent years posting hysterical messages to you after she was blocked. Completely stereotypical BPD. And you encourage it. I don't think that is healthy. I remember how she used to freak out over having all that crap posted for eternity and harming her "career" prospects. Isn't that still a concern for you? I think you are taking advantage of a fragile vulnerable person and it's very concerning. I think if you want to do therapy with her and she is willing you should donate your services and establish a professional relationship with some safeguards for her.
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> Maybe since then you've changed. And maybe Babble has, too. I'm glad you have your journal back.
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> Bob
Duckling I listen and for many a time I have been half in love and many a time much more
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