Posted by Dinah on December 11, 2011, at 8:49:54
In reply to Re: empathy, posted by hyperfocus on December 11, 2011, at 2:23:42
> Few things seem to incite more rabid hatred in people than the tiny minority of individuals who try to see past their own self-interest. But it is precisely empathy and sensitivity and conscientiousness and understanding and unselfishness that moves our world forward.
That hasn't been my experience of the world, at least not past high school. Admittedly I do see it as an advantage that people are too busy living their own lives to spend lots of energy on hating others, so some self-interest I consider a good thing. But I don't think I've been in many groups where empathy, conscientiousness, understanding and unselfishness weren't honored. Sensitivity is something many don't really understand, but I don't think there's any ill intent involved.
Maybe a lot depends on your environments? A small workplace might lead to more interdependence and tolerance of others, while a large competitive workplace might contribute to pack or tribal behaviors, and encourage competition over cooperation.
There are also religious groups and social groups that differ a lot in group atmosphere. I have a hobby I enjoy, but I'm very reluctant to get involved in the organization because my perception is that it would not be congenial.
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