Posted by manic666 on July 5, 2009, at 12:03:33
In reply to need strength re toxic birth mom ??**trigger**??, posted by surfergirl on July 3, 2009, at 18:55:39
i dont no if this will help, but i had a few kids out of wedlock before i reolised my brain was in my head not my trouser,s, i had no contact with them , but at 25 one of my girls wanted to see me,she had been brought up by hear mom an stepdad,i met with my daughter an it was sureal she was like a clone, we promised all kinds of things, but she went cold later an now its over, she was curious , but i was nothing to her . like your real mom is to you,i backed off but it hurt , but it must of hurt my girl her all her life.i tried to get the relationship back but it was not to be . you dont need your mom as mine didnt need me, she just feels guilty , like my girl must have thought dont hurt yourself for someone you dont no
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