Posted by Deneb on June 3, 2009, at 15:30:26
In reply to Both my dates bailed out on today, posted by Deneb on June 3, 2009, at 12:14:02
I coaxed outdoorsy guy to go out with me. He decided he could handle a walk. We walked/sat for about 40 mins.
Why is it so hard to find a confident, positive good looking guy who isn't insecure and negative??
I think he is very good looking. He is kind of short and I am guessing a lot of women have rejected him because of that. Very quiet, is humourous, but opinionated and just negative. Why why why are so many people negative? I ask, do you like living here? His answer? No I hate living here. I ask, do you have any friends? No, I don't have friends, all my friends want to do is go out and drink. I can tell he is not an easy going guy. I was really nice I hope. I even gave him a small hug, but I made sure to walk back to the starting point really quickly. I think maybe he is a nice guy, but he seems to like being alone more and is way too insecure. Being scared of rejection to the point of not even meeting people is not very attractive.
Am I being too hard on these guys or what? I am going by gut feelings. Should I give this guy another chance? I hope he doesn't like me.
Where are the normal guys? Have they all been taken?
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