Posted by garnet71 on May 15, 2009, at 22:03:24
In reply to Re: VERY BAD boy....my few days in Montreal....ughhh.. » garnet71, posted by Jay_Bravest_Face on May 14, 2009, at 5:05:39
Hey Jay-why not post your ad here (minus the revealing picture of course) and get all the opinions from us gals? Plus my ex is an expert at getting women and from online dating; I could offer advice! For example, projecting confidence in an online ad is going to attract more women. I think e-harmony is a good idea; maybe just because a good friend of mine just met someone off there and now has bought a house with him! (kinda sux because she was my best college buddy and she moved away and I miss her!)
But the key is, people who are not on those sites long; those who are just "trying" them out. I think this from talking to many other people and observing the ex; everyone I know that's had a successful relationship that originated online, was always someone who didn't normally online date. Not that i'm correct, just what I've noticed...In your age group, there are tons of women available...(because sweethearts like you are hard to find--men that age are usually taken/ already married - or players!)
But I do understand the longing-I've posted recently about this; having someone to hold every night...I don't know about your previous issues you spoke of, but can only understand perhaps the longing feelings...I've gone for years alone, and found I am comfortable w/myself..I hope you have too..because I think being comfy with yourself is the ultimate prerequisite for a good relationship - but after so long, and it's only human nature, you have that constant feeling that something's "missing" from your life...I sure do know that feeling...
I think you sound like a great catch, and the next woman you date will be lucky to have found you!!!
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