Posted by jammerlich on July 29, 2008, at 23:25:49
In reply to Re: Betrayal and overwhelming grief » jammerlich, posted by Midnightblue on July 29, 2008, at 23:01:36
> Is it possible that your friend was so worried about you that she sought to get you close, real life help even at the risk of losing your very precious friendship?
Oh, I'm sure this is the case. Well, pretty much the case. She did say she never thought it would cause an end to the friendship. What I find hard to work my way around is why she was deceptive about it. And why she encouraged my ex to keep quiet about it, too. THEN, when I told her this was the biggest problem for me, why she didn't tell me who else she'd tried to contact. You see the difference?
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