Posted by Daisym on April 22, 2007, at 0:58:16
In reply to I feel accused dismissed guilt-tripped and sad, posted by zazenducke on April 22, 2007, at 0:38:02
I should give up but I really, really don't want you to feel accused, dismissed, guilt-tripped. I guess since I feel sad I wouldn't mind the company in that.
I'm not accusing you of anything. Actually, just the opposite as I am trying to unwind myself from the mess I've made. Apologies typed out never sound as sincere as I would like them to. But believe me when I say I'm trying to disengage without malice.
I'm trying to back away, take responsibility and make nice, not dismiss you. Hence my plea.
Guilt tripped - I hope not. You are so right that disagreeing and speaking out isn't fighting. I just don't want to do any of things anymore tonight.
I'm sorry you are sad. Me too. I think we all need ice cream. Or whatever makes you feel better.
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