Posted by zazenducke on April 21, 2007, at 23:52:40
In reply to Re: An Open Letter to Daisy - please hear, posted by Daisym on April 21, 2007, at 23:23:45
> ****Daisy how do you think people who don't agree with you should express themselves? You write sometimes about wanting to be heard...and I would really like your thoughts. Are you asking everyone to just not talk about any negative experiences here?
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> ***Nope - never have ever asked anyone to not post about any negative experiences. People disagree with me ALL the time. What I was hoping to point out was that this place isn't all bad. And all the fighting makes people leave and that makes me sad. Because we are fighting about the fighting now, not the issue anymore. Does that make any sense at all?'''''''''
No. sorry it doesn't make any sense to me at all.
I haven't seen anyone say this place is ALL bad at all. Could you be specific?
I think people leave for lots of reasons.
A lot of them can't even be mentioned without being blocked. It feels as if the elephant in the room stomps you bloody and kicks you out of the house if you mention it. How can we discuss negative experiences without mentioning them? If you consider this discussions "fighting", how can we discuss these things in a different way?
Could you tell me what you consider the "issue"?
I think people leave because of the things people have been complaining about. And that makes me sad.
Thanks for replying. I genuinely don't understand what you meant. I just don't understand.
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