Posted by Jay on November 17, 2006, at 8:52:59
In reply to Sad, torturing myself, posted by TexasChic on November 16, 2006, at 20:54:49
I'd like to give you a bit of advice, from a male point of view. First, are you infatuated with this guy? Or does he have an amazing personality? You know what road I am going down, eh? If I may ask, how did you get involved in this "office politics" crap? There are hundreds of thousands of nice guys out there (like me...aheemm.:-) Find friends *outside* of work. What I used to do at work (and still do), honestly, was stick my nose in the air, my head above the clouds, and my co-workers, except the few who REALLY knew me, thought I was some quiet, arrogant snob. They never dared f*ck with me. I also consider I deserve a bit of this respect, being my *grand old* age..hahaa. (I'm only 37...but I have the best of both worlds...old enough not to care too much, about what people think of me; young enough to remember, the way things ought to be:) Just GO OUT THERE WITH A F*CK YOU attitude...seriously! They'll never know what hit them!
Best,
Jay
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