Posted by Deneb on April 4, 2006, at 23:56:26
In reply to Re: Boundaries -- both personal and professional, posted by special_k on April 4, 2006, at 22:51:02
Maybe you are right special k...maybe I do love Dr. Bob *because* of the boundaries and not *despite* the boundaries.
I really don't know how I would react if one day Dr. Bob acted like a friend towards me.
In my mind giving Bob a small hug is not going out of boundaries. What if a small hug is seen as a greeting? Right now I don't even know if I have the guts to actually ask to hug Bob. Maybe I won't even want to hug Bob.
I don't think hugging Bob will confuse me or hurt me in anyway. I know he doesn't love me like I love him. I would be scared if he loved me back.
I just have this fantasy of hugging Dr. Bob. I walk around the streets and I pretend someone is Dr. Bob and I imagine hugging that person. I hug the air in front of me and pretend I'm hugging Dr. Bob. I imagine that hugging Dr. Bob will give me a comfy feeling.
{{{{{{{Dr. Bob}}}}}}}}}
I just love Bob. :-)
Deneb
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