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Glad it went okay » special_k

Posted by Damos on April 3, 2006, at 17:35:47

In reply to Re: Hey there am finally up » Damos, posted by special_k on April 3, 2006, at 2:22:41

Hey precious girl :-)

I'm glad it went okay. It's nice that she was nice, would have made going a tiny weeny bit easier. Yeah I know attachment is real hard for you, I know it is.

No I don't think she wants to be ringing peoples back home either. Fresh start, clean slate. What you think and feel right here, right now is what matters, not what others thought about you in the past. It's the meaning the past stuff has for you in the present that's important, work with that. It's good you said you'd talk to her about past stuff next time and that she seemed like she wanted to see you again - that's good.

Yeah I though you might be feeling small, and that's okay, I feel that way too sometimes, afraid people will find out that I'm just a scared little kid really. But it's okay we'll take good care of you. Tell us how we can help you feel safe and okay.

Please don't be sorry. Nothing to be sorry for, not now not ever. So much goodness and kindness and sweetness in you. You are such a joy to us and just the bestest friend.

Good you've been able to do a little work, must feel better, moving forward, ease a little of that pressure off. But remember to be kind to you too. Just sit and listen to the birdies, find a nice safe place and lay on the grass under a tree. Stuff just for you, that's important too. You just do what you need to do for you okay, we're here if you need us, and we care lots and lots.

Bet you were relieved, it was a big thing for you to do and I'm real proud of you, musta been scary. After I do scary stuff like presentations I just wanna blob and sleep too, hope you managed to have a good sleep cause that'll help.

Yeah I know you wish you could find her. She really means a lot to you. But she's never left you. She's inside in your heart and in your thoughts and memories. Any time you need her all you have to do is think about what she would have done or said to you in a particular situation and the answers will be there. What's really important is that she believed in you, like we do. Trust you.

(((((special)))))

 

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