Posted by Elle2021 on February 8, 2004, at 1:27:09
In reply to i have a problem, posted by anya on February 8, 2004, at 0:43:59
Okay, lets start at the beginning. Rape is a serious accusation. This guy sounds like a real jerk, but you've left out some important details.
>we kissed. his hand was suddenly in my pants. i said no.
You said no. Okay, he didn't stop, correct?
he was pushing a tampon too far inside me. i shoved him off into a fence.
I am so sorry that happened to you. I can only imagine how terribly painful that was.
> followed him upstairs to his bedroom.
You followed him voluntarily? Did he force you up into his bedroom?
>i undressed myself.
Willingly? Did he threaten you in any way?
>we had sex.
Did you say no? Bottom line, did you want to have sex? Did you resist?
at some point he pushed my head down. held it down until i gave oral sex. all through he shh-ed at me. then took me back to my car.
Again, did you say no?
Instead of getting advice here, I really, strongly advise you to immediately speak with your therapist or a counselor. Or even speak to a police officer. Or take yourself to the hospital, they have crisis counselors there that can help you. This is a job for a professional. Please get the help you need as soon as possible. I'm so sorry this happened.
Elle
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