Posted by Karen_kay on December 25, 2003, at 11:48:01
In reply to Re: life has a way of changing the picture » Jai Narayan, posted by NikkiT2 on December 25, 2003, at 6:41:03
This is soemthing I have worke don heavily in therapy.. my agorphobia stemmed from the thought that people will judge me for the way I look, and will think things about me that aren't true for that..
I guess this has just totally bought it back to me that there are people out there that will judge me, and dismiss me, before even knowing a single thing about who or what I am.
*Are you suggesting that I would do that?
In all honesty, I would be thrilled to meet his wife in person. And if I were to meet her, I would be open, caring and receptive. Everyone has something wonderful to offer. And I love to just listen to other's stories. And everyone is lovely in their own way. But, she, in my opinion, is not what I'd define as conventional beauty. There must be something there. He did marry her. I just want to know what. The problem is that I can't because he is my therapist. But, that doesn't mean I would dismiss her, or anyone else for that matter.And it's not that I'm judging her. I'm judging him.
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