Posted by jay on December 25, 2003, at 1:26:09
In reply to Not my intention., posted by Karen_kay on December 24, 2003, at 17:30:05
Well...I just think a picture is superficial, regardless of clichés. The way I have fallen, usually, in love with people is to develop a friendship, and often the "physical" attraction becomes more neutral over time, meanwhile the deeper sides of our personalities come out. It takes time...month's and an odd time into years. I think I've got a very good understanding of it all also because I am a social worker. Those less-noticeable things are quite noticeable to me. Don't forget, there is the "average" looking, which the majority of us fall into. Different hearts beat on different strings. I have thinning hair and put on a few pounds, but I still dress well, use nice cologne, and I can turn a head if the chemistry is *right*. Anyhow...IMHO...
Jay
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