Posted by sfmom on December 15, 2003, at 19:32:38
In reply to Re: Saturday, posted by geri122 on December 15, 2003, at 14:39:08
Hi Geri,
Sorry I haven't posted for a few days. I've been dealing with some crap of my own and am feeling pretty down. But that's how it goes, we all have some ups and some downs. The meds I've been on have helped me to actually have more up days than down ones lately, but it still happens.
I really loved your idea about your friend going with you to see a counselor. Sometimes just having someone there to hold your hand or give you a hug can make all the difference in the world. Have you found someone you can see in your area? If not, may I suggest that you or your friend call the hotline that Lynne got for you? You don't even have to talk to them if you don't want, just sit next to your friend while she calls and explains the situation and tells them that you are ready for help. I know it is a huge step, but one that we all think you are ready for. Please let us know what you decide to do so that we can offer all the support possible.
I was also really sorry to hear about your privacy issues at home. It really sucks that your dad is on your back. I don't know all of the situation, and it could be that he's always been like that, but I just have to say this and I apologize if I'm out of line, but maybe, just maybe, he senses that there has been something wrong in your life and doesn't know how to approach you about it so is encroaching on your privacy to one, try to be closer to you, and two, to try to find out what's wrong. Just another perspective to consider. . .
Are you out of school for winter break yet? What are your plans over the holidays? I know the holidays can be very stressful and I hope you'll have some time to yourself and with your friends. How about for New Year's Eve? Geez, I don't even have plans for New Year's and it's my 30th birthday! Yikes, I'm getting old!
Anyway, keep in touch and know we're all thinking about you.
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