Posted by sienna on November 24, 2003, at 15:46:13
In reply to Re: Saturday night, lonely/ sienna, posted by kara lynne on November 23, 2003, at 14:16:52
you said what if i never find another boyfriend....hmm, well i guess the possiblity is there, but i always think that, then always turn up with one sooner or later. granted i have gone years being single, but then lo and behold, i have a boyfriend again. generally i tend to have year or so long relationships with droughts of a year or two in between. maybe think about your pattern? i know that this time i vowed that if i broke up with my bf i would keep my social scene up and keep meeting people and try to keep dating. but who knows if that is really what works.
kara lynne, you seem a lot like me, i feel like we are around the same age with some of the same type problems. honestly you seem smart and funny and really cool to me and im sure others see that in you too. i always feel like im uninteresting and such, but deep down i know it isnt true.
dating is reallyhard these days i think it is harder where we live. (i dont really know *where* you live, just the state). i know about
the compromsie thing too. i am compromising, but i feel like there really isnt anything better out there. people tell me im not right, but its hard.im sorry you are feeling so crappy. but really if this guy isnt good to you, then thats the bottom line. i have laid out that to my guy too. basically told him that i can deal with plenty but he has to ultimately be good to me and if not that then im walking away. even if I am walking away to the loneliness of my empty house.
oh i am blah blah im sorry. ive just thought so much about all this lately. you are in my thoughts knowing you are dealing with this stuff too.
do you have some single girlfriends you can hang with for a bit? sometimes that helps. anyhoo, i hope you are feeling a bit better. let me know if you get anywhere with the telepathy. ((((((kara lynne)))))
sienna
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