Posted by Jai on November 21, 2003, at 12:19:13
In reply to Thanks to you all, posted by socialdeviantjeff on November 20, 2003, at 21:07:12
> It's not easy to watch life happen from the sidelines, alone, getting pushed out of the game everytime you try to go in because you're not allowed on the team.
>It's a funny thing about feeling like life is happening to everyone but yourself. I used to think & feel like I was a bit player in my own movie.
what had escaped me was that I had put the center of my life somewhere other than me. It took years of good therapy and some EMDR to help me to take up the center of my own life. If trauma has put you on the sidelines and outside of the team maybe EMDR could put you back where you belong? It worked for me, but I guess it doesn't work for everyone. Just a thought.
I think it is so wonderful that you can appreciate how much we all care...we do you know.
poster:Jai
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