Posted by kara lynne on September 17, 2003, at 20:08:12
In reply to Just Say No » kara lynne, posted by fallsfall on September 17, 2003, at 18:34:57
I am going to. But it just feels like I won't be able to endure the pain. My counselor says it is the not letting go that is causing me the pain. I just wonder--how do I get to this magical state of letting go?
I thought I did so well--I moved out, I didn't talk to him, I didn't see him, I wrote the letter....and then boom. I'm back in utter desperation and attachment. If I say goodbye I really have to mean it, but how can I mean it when I feel this way?
poster:kara lynne
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