Re: don't call him

Posted by Tabitha on September 4, 2003, at 13:21:27

In reply to Re: Hi Gabbix2 » gabbix2, posted by Arrianna on September 4, 2003, at 0:42:25

Another vote for NOT calling him. Just starve him out, don't give him any attention or hope. By making the excuse about the drinking, you were trying to be nice, but it gave him something to argue with. Next time if he forces a confrontation just tell him you're not interested, sorry. Don't engage in an argument about the reasons. Just repeat your position. For example, 'I'm sorry, I just don't want to date you.' 'I don't know exactly why, I just don't feel interested in dating you.' 'I know myself well enough to know my feelings won't change on this.' 'Sorry, you're not the right guy for me.'
He'll find another target for his attention soon enough.

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Physically threatened..SCARED..HELP! Arrianna 9/1/03
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Re: Physically threatened..SCARED..HELP! gabbix2 9/1/03
Re: Physically threatened..SCARED..HELP! Arrianna 9/1/03
Re: thanks, » Arrianna gabbix2 9/1/03
Re: Your Welcome » gabbix2 Arrianna 9/1/03
Some Practical Advice As Well » Arrianna Susan J 9/2/03
Re: Thanks! » Susan J Arrianna 9/2/03
Finding Mace » Arrianna Susan J 9/3/03
Arianna, and hello Susan J gabbix2 9/3/03
Re: Hi Gabbix2 » gabbix2 Arrianna 9/4/03
Re: Hi Gabbix2 » Arrianna fallsfall 9/4/03
Re: Hi Gabbix2 » Arrianna Phil 9/4/03
Re: Hi Gabbix2 » Arrianna fallsfall 9/4/03
Re: don't call him Tabitha 9/4/03
The benefit of the doubt Gabbix2 9/4/03
Re: don't call him » Tabitha Gabbix2 9/4/03
Re: don't call him. Ditto that!!! (nm) Liligoth 9/4/03
Re: don't call him Ilene 9/4/03
Re: double double quotes » Gabbix2 Dr. Bob 9/4/03
Thanks Again Everyone Arrianna 9/4/03

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