Posted by noa on July 18, 2003, at 19:42:16
In reply to Mercury, you got me laughing! » Mercury, posted by Temmie on July 18, 2003, at 17:30:18
And if the fear of his hurting you doesn't do it, how about picturing how you'll have to take care of him when/if he gets more dysfunctional, feeble, whatever!
It sounds like you want so badly to be out of your living situation and Paul kind of represents the escape. But realistically, he is not in a stable enough place in his life to have a good relationship, anyway. That is the best spin on it. You can imagine the other spins....
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