Posted by Mercury on July 18, 2003, at 17:22:01
In reply to Lonely and Confused, posted by Temmie on July 18, 2003, at 12:07:08
Hey Girl!
Now that we're almost, sort, kinda, might be friends. Let me give you some straight up feedback here. No beating around the bush. No sugar coating for message board style points. Just the straight poop.
Run for your life. Get away from this guy as fast as you can. Don't look back. Don't dilly dally and waste another day. This Paul guy sounds like a big fat loser. And he's going to hurt you. Guaranteed. So cut bait, and cut him off. Immediately. You don't need that kind of drama in your life.
That said, don't get me wrong. I'm a big fan of love. I think everyone should have someone who loves them. I just think you should look in some other places. Maybe there's someone at your college? A professor maybe? Another student? An older guy? Maybe ever a younger guy! (Shhhhh!) You're obviously a kind, smart and determined woman. If your really as attractive as you say then it sounds to me like you've got the goods! Use 'em sister! Your boy will be out of the house soon. Sounds to me like its right on time! Find yourself the best looking, most successful single guy you can find and knock his socks off! Give him "the treatment" then get him to help you out financially as well as emotionally. Tell him straight up what you want, companionship, respect and support, and then give him what he wants. As a man, I'll tell you that guys appreciate a fair trade. Don't go looking for love right away. Look for Joy and let Love find you. Have fun. Take no prisoners. And watch while they worship the ground that you walk on. Ok, now I know I'm really in some controvertial territory here, and God knows there are going to be some here that take offense to this...but to heck with them. Shake what your mother gave you and get yourself a man whose smart, good looking and rich.
Ok. Give it to me ladies. LOL!
Mercury
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