Posted by kara lynne on July 17, 2003, at 13:28:43
In reply to Re: oh wow, two weeks is not long!, posted by giget on July 17, 2003, at 10:15:42
Hi giget,
sorry to hear you're not doing well. What are the possiblities of getting another job? sounds like a great idea to me.I don't think you or I should be putting our energy into men who can't love us. In all likelihood he will be calling you again at some point. I hate to say this, but of course it's more likely that he will if you don't. But hopefully by then you will have found more strength in your resolve to stay away from him. Or better yet a new boyfriend!
What a horrible thing to say he loved who you were, but not who you are. That's like my ex saying if only I would (fill in blank) then he would (fill in blank). It just leaves you crazy and desperate in a situation that is impossible to win in.
*You* love who you are now--and do whatever it means to take care of yourself. And I'll try to do the same...
Love Kara
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