Posted by leeran on April 30, 2003, at 0:46:34
In reply to My brother, posted by kara lynne on April 29, 2003, at 13:10:35
Hi Kara Lynne,
Well, there's nothing like the prospect of a little family phoniness to make a break-up even more bearable, eh? Inevitably, calls like that come at the worst possible times.
Gosh, I feel for you. I'm one of those people who hates wedding showers, baby showers, anniversary parties, etc.
I don't mind giving the gift, but I mind like h*ll giving of myself and my time (selfish person that I am). My husband's family is very sincere and they really seem to enjoy one another, plus, the food is always so good that it takes away any possible discomfort. I can handle situations better with layer upon layer of carbohydrates.
I guess one of the advantages of being an only childhood is the Murphy Brown factor (I would have to rent siblings for such an event). Do you have to travel for this event as well?
I'm with everyone else, I think your cat senses your agony. Our dog seems to watch my every move/mood. I don't know if "Alpha Cat" holds true like "Alpha Dog," but if it does, your kitty takes her lead from you. Talk about unconditional love. They think the world of us and when we hurt, they hurt . . .
I'm so sorry you're going through this, Kara Lynne. Lingering break ups are so difficult, even when you know it may be the best option.
Take care of yourself . . .
Lee
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