Posted by Roo on July 5, 2001, at 7:55:14
In reply to Re: Slightly off topic-Shar, posted by Phil on July 3, 2001, at 21:38:17
I agree Shar. I hear that phrase and it makes me
bristle. It's _so_ judgemental. But I think like
most judgemental things it says more about the person
saying the word than the person it's directed towards.
It's not at all helpful either--how fruitful is it
to say something like that? How does it help the
situation? How does it bring about lovingkindness/compassion?
It's just plain mean, in my opinion.
poster:Roo
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