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Re: being able to hear. Doo

Posted by Doo on May 8, 2001, at 16:34:16

In reply to Re: being able to hear. Doo, posted by mila on May 8, 2001, at 11:56:59

> ===my defensive patterns, my armour
>
> what defensive patterns? what threatens you?

This is what I want to find in therapy.

> ===is it really the truth?
>
> yes, half of it.

Hehe. It's the logical truth, but not the human one.

> ===I wish a car hits me when I cross the street.
>
> Quit crossing the street. Do Not Cross. What you are reaching for is not there. Stay on THIS side, until you realize. Or, better to say, stay right in the middle of your road voluntarily, and get used to other cars honking and drivers cursing, or offering you help, or respectfully streaming around you. Be bold. that seems to be the message of this death wish.
>
> ===drive into a big pole while driving at 130 km/h on the autoroute.
>
> come in touch, or start thinking the opposite, or come to standstill when you realize you are moving that fast along AUTOroute. in other words, stop being self-sufficient, when it feels that wrong that the "death at the pole" thought enters your mind. think otherwise. that seems to be the message of this death wish.
>

These are very insightful observations... Unfortunately, the meaning of all this has to come from within me, otherwise it's not fully integrated.

> No, i mean like for real. you wanna say something to them. say it to them, do not behave like the person is not there, or like they will understand every word and sentence. Tailor your messages to their size and emotional state. If you notice that they are kinda deaf, speak louder, or more clearly, if you notice they are TOTALLY deaf, leave. find someone who has their hearing intact.

> best
> mila

ok best to you too, mila.

Doo


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