Posted by Bent on November 24, 2004, at 17:34:47
I have a question about my fiance. We live together and have been a couple for 8 years. We both have separate computers and while running an update in his computer I noticed that the virus scanner popped up a message saying that there were 10 viruses on his computer. Upon further investigation I see that they all came from porn sites. I am feeling so guitly but i looked around to see how much time he's been spending on these sites. Every few days he's visiting porn sites, sometimes for over four hours in one day. We have always been fairly open to some forms of porn. I am open to some stuff: movies, books, even some interenet stuff we have looked at together. My problem is that I am just wondering if this is extreme? It wouldnt bother me to see that he was looking at some stuff once in a while, but several days a week, for several hours? I am worried. I am also hurt. Our sex life hasnt been exactly passionate recently. Maybe I just shouldnt have looked but it bothers me. Do you think this is extreme? Has anyone ever been through something similar? Thanks.
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