Posted by alexandra_k on December 7, 2004, at 2:53:15
In reply to Re: confused about porn? » Miss Honeychurch, posted by Gnepig on December 6, 2004, at 17:49:38
> Thanks for beleiving me. I'm sorry you can't be honest and open with your SO. I empathize with you because my wife thinks I'm sick and demented if I think of anything else besides her. I have my fantasises, but I keep them to myself.
I don't think that fantasies are bad.
In the way that we can do whatever we want in a lucid dream and not be held morally accountable we can fantasise about whatever and we are not morally accountable because we aren't hurting anyone.Of course if fantasising more results in increased urges there may be a problem...
Fantasies can hurt realities...
But I fantasise all the time and I reckon thats ok...But I would never discuss any of that with a clinician. Nope, nope, nope, thats way too personal :-)
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