Posted by sunny10 on November 25, 2004, at 11:12:05
In reply to Re: ask him » Bent, posted by AdaGrace on November 25, 2004, at 6:24:12
another thing to think about.... a lot of times when your computer gets infected, there are lots of windows that "open", but hidden from you...
It's possible that he wasn't even interacting with these windows!
It happened to my computer and I'm SURE I wan't looking at porn !
That being said, I think it depends on BOTH of your reactions to porn... and that you'd have to talk about it to know the other persons point of view.
I KNOW that I am insecure, and that to me it feels like cheating on me that my SO likes to look at pictures of other women naked... but that's just me...He thinks it's just part of being male and that to look at a pisture is better than him going out to strip clubs or actually cheating on me...
So, he probably looks, and I try to ignore...
Nobody "wins", but then again noone "loses", either...
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