Posted by baseball55 on July 23, 2014, at 19:49:43
In reply to Re: Not thinking right » baseball55, posted by Partlycloudy on July 23, 2014, at 7:18:06
> I am still not decided what to do. I am only listing the realistic reasons I am holding back. Financial security would only be a temporary concern, and I am scared, not terribly materialistic.
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> I still didn't sleep too great. So I know I need to be as rational as I can.
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> Do you see what I am saying?
> PCI absolutely understand what you are saying. I struggled for months about leaving even after I knew he was involved with someone else. The financial issues were daunting but worst was just the idea of being alone, starting over, leaving the familiar. On the other hand, once I made the decision to leave, I felt better. Mostly, I felt better about myself - that I was not settling for being unhappy and trying to patch together and rationalize what had become a bad relationship.
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