Posted by MysticKangaroo on January 30, 2010, at 22:08:30
In reply to Re: constant nausea, posted by Blahblahblah on January 30, 2010, at 20:21:55
Ohhh Blah
I get the sense you feel guilty for loving your mum along the lines of Like how could you????because she was your mother. We are programmed to bond with them. That's what makes the abuse of the relationship all the more hideous. This is NOT YOUR FAULT. I say again THIS IS NOT YOUR FAULT.
My take on your T referring you your egocentric stage would be that kids always think they cause bad things to happen. Especially if they are "sick" I put that in inverted commas cos I know YOU were not sick but made sick but you didn't know that then. or worse you did...
This is not your fault.
I would not have a clue how to make sense of your mother's behaviour. It is unthinkable that somebody we love could do something so bad. But they did. Yes your mum had a hard time growing up. That is her stuff.It may explain it but that in no way diminishes what you suffered. It doesn't matter how she presents to the rest of the world. you know what happened to you. As do the people who picked up the pieces at the time and your T now.
This is not your fault.You are doing a great job getting your self back. Keep on going.
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