Posted by fleeting flutterby on April 10, 2009, at 9:04:01
In reply to Re: What is your T. to you?? » fleeting flutterby, posted by seldomseen on April 10, 2009, at 6:58:19
> I love your description of the "grumblers" too. I have get/have/experience those too. LOL
>--flutterby: Heh, thanks! :o)
> I also go into certain stores with every intention of purchasing some items, but then succumb to the "cheapies" and can't spend any money (even if I need it).<<---flutterby: Oh! I do that too!
> In any case, figuring out who your T "is" is a tough one. The relationship is unlike any other that I have had in my life.<<---flutterby: that word - "relationship"-- causes my anxiety to rise. Im so fearful of putting the T. I see into a "relationship" description. God, what is wrong with me?!! argh!! I want to, as I feel that is the right direction, but I'm so unbelievably frightened!
>> I went through this whole father thing, then this physician thing, then a magician thing (i'm still kinda in that).
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> But I guess he's just my therapist. He has a set of skills that helps me to understand myself and the choices that I make. I'm also closest to him than probably any other person in my life because of all I've shared with him.<<---flutterby: that is so wonderful that you feel close and-- I s'pose trust him too. that is where I wish I could be.
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> Maybe your therapist can help you figure out who she is to you. In fact, my guess is that she would be thrilled to help you figure that out.
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> Seldom---flutterby: Maybe I could bring it up this week...... do you think she would appreciate it??... really??
hope I can keep the "grumblers" at bay...... they so don't want me to reach out-- "keep safe and alone" is what they say.... (Im so tired of not having a friend- IRL-.. the grumblers don't realize how lonely "alone" can be........)thanks for the reply :o)
flutterby-mandy
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