Posted by fleeting flutterby on February 13, 2009, at 12:50:55
In reply to Re: What if.......... » fleeting flutterby, posted by sassyfrancesca on February 13, 2009, at 7:56:47
> ((Flutter)): Well, I would immediately think he felt he couldn't help me anymore.<<<
flutterby:---- thank you too for the affirmation! Wow-- i would never have thought so many here would see this the same as me!! this is amazing and reassuring-- to trust my feelings!Wow!!
> BUT, I would ask him what he meant by that. As scary as it is, it is MORE scary for me to go crazy in my head, trying to figure out what someone else says.<<flutterby:--- see, for me, when I was little that's all I had was my own head...... I've become VERY dependent on it to keep me safe(no matter the thinking)..... now I'm finding out that sometimes it's not so good at surveying a situation.... *shrugs*......*sigh*.......
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> When someone says something, there is more than one interpretation, so if we don't ask we won't know.
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> Hugs, Sassy<<<
flutterby:--- thank you Sassy. :o) Very good advise, that I'm going to try hard to keep in my mind.
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