Posted by FindingMyDesire on November 11, 2008, at 19:07:09
In reply to What is the Nicest Thing Your T Ever Said to You?, posted by sassyfrancesca on November 10, 2008, at 9:26:50
I really like this question and enjoyed reading what everyone has shared. I also feel some jealousy. I want to hear so much more from my T about how she feels about me. I think I have to value her actions, her care, and her consistency more than her words - or lack thereof.
She did finally tell me that she cares for me a lot. It was in reaction to me complaining about her never having said that to me. She also told me I'm not 'pathetic' or 'too much' - both in reaction to me telling her that I thought I was. These things all meant a lot to me and I often think about her saying them to me.
One of the most meaningful things she said to me of all time was when she listed several observations about me - some having to do with my sexuality and gender which I won't quote here, but I don't think I have ever felt that seen by anyone, ever.
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