Posted by llurpsienoodle on November 8, 2008, at 8:30:29
In reply to Re: My T makes an inappropriate joke... » llurpsienoodle, posted by Bobby on November 7, 2008, at 21:59:06
> By chance---does your therapist go by the name of manic666? I'm sorry you found it hurtful---but perhaps he just feels comfortable enough with you to let down his guard --to be on that level.
I hope so, and he has given me some indications of that, but I think he is still able to respect his role of "therapist" rather than buddy or mentor. When I have perceived the boundaries as being invaded in the past, I have gotten very upset and we have had discussions about that.
>I certainly possess no skills to discern beyond just being a male trying to read objectively. As long as it doesn't progress towards being suggestive-it wouldn't bother me. But women, especially those who have been victims of abuse and/or those who feel vulnerable, are particularly sensitive to anything that remotely puts their emotions at risk. If it continues to make you uncomfortable after due thought--you bet I'd tell him. It's your mental health on the table--not his. As long as he's being paid for his services--he should conduct himself in a manner that becomes his profession.I think you make good points here. I hope that my T would be sensitive enough to know when I was in a state of mind to appreciate his "sick" sense of humor and when it would be damaging to the therapeutic process.
>I should shut up! I know there's a reason I don't post here on psychology--I'm frightened by the prospect that someone will be influenced by the ramblings of a madman! Good luck--that's what I should have said. :)
Bobby, I'm honored that you DID make it over to this board, because you have a lot to offer. Don't be so modest. You have a good perspective and are a very sensitive guy, which can be appreciated in all areas of life, and certainly on the /psychology/ board. Good luck to you!
-Ll
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