Posted by Phillipa on October 27, 2008, at 12:54:16
In reply to Re: Why would he do it? » JoniS, posted by sassyfrancesca on October 27, 2008, at 7:54:00
Been through three divorces one after 21 years thing is it's only now the lonliness married now to a man who doesn't talk or want to share our lives. Now I'm looking back first yes was verbally and he cheated and drank, second was a wonderful older man and should have stayed with him, third a faithful truck driver but nothing in commom and he also drank. Now this one is verbally abusive but can't go through another. People keep saying I need meds but if the relationship worked I wouldn't need them as didn't in the two year hiatus between marriages. And no to marriage couselling been there done that for seven years with first husband. Point in writing all this is that I do know the inner lonliness. You can be with someone and be lonlier. So if you and T keep healthy boundaries that is good. Love Phillipa and sincerely hope you feel better today.