Posted by JoniS on October 26, 2008, at 19:24:15
My T - he's been very professional and pretty clear on boundaries in the 6 years I've known him. Sometimes I email him sometimes text, but usually just when I'm telling him I'm running late. Well the other day I saw him and I had text'd him that I'd be late. That night at 9:45 he texts me "noticed you called me "nicknameT". that is a nickname only my closest friends have used for years. It made me feel good to know you used it. Thanks"
So why would he do this to me, 9:45 at night, livin my life and minding my own business, here I'm going through a divorce and he knows I'm dealing with lonliness and he know that I love him? I've been trying to get the courage to quit therapy, because I think I only go now to see him. I'm not even sure I beleive in the merits of therapy anymore. But I don't quit yet because I figure that I need to talk to someone for a while longer as I'm coming through this awful time. Anyway - his text just revives my fantasy that he does have some feelings for me and that we could some day have a reltionship (ethically after 2 yrs) He has been going through some huge relationship challenges with his wife during the past several months but he doesn't talk about it any more (he only did a little bit before) Why do you suppose he sent me that message? I feel so lonely sometimes and right now is one of those times.
Joni
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