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Re: hugs in therapy » Amanda29

Posted by sassyfrancesca on October 16, 2008, at 7:26:27

In reply to hugs in therapy, posted by Amanda29 on October 15, 2008, at 17:05:32

((((Amanda)))): Sending you hugs, sweetie! As humans, we all need to be touched and feel loved.

I don't think there is anything wrong in a t giving a hug (if you go into Dr. Zur's website, you will see he has different thinking than most t's....and I agree with everything he says.

There are so many rules and regulations in the t business, that it can become cold and inhuman.

My t and I have argued/discussed the hug thing many times. In the beginning he would hug me hello and goodbye. Then he stopped the hugs....we go back and forth; I have even given him articled on hugging, and that it is therapeutic.

I think for my t it is sexual. I told him that for me it is simply a human need and NOT sexual at all. He said he only hugs kids and little old ladys......

I am alone after 31 years of abuse, and am a huggy, kissy, touchy feely type of person....I need and crave hugs.

It's a fact that babies will die without touch, but we as adults won't die, but I souls will......if we are not touched.

Wish i could come right over and hug you for real, dear little friend.

Love and HUGS, HUGS, HUGS, Sassy


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