Posted by JouezMoi on October 7, 2008, at 5:34:42
In reply to Re: Mutual attraction » Suedehead, posted by lucie lu on October 6, 2008, at 22:45:56
Suedehead,
I think this is a good development and I think you can make it beneficial to you. I had something similar happen, but I didn't handle it well. I terminated.
In retrospect, his revelation is still all about you. It can help you know that you are attractive, you are lovable and you are worthy of love, without you having to sacrifice you. You came to him being you, showing all your 'warts' and you are still attractive and lovable.
There is a lesson here. Keep it in perspective. It's ALL about YOU. Feel those loving feelings, yours and his, and HEAL !
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