Posted by k9lover on October 2, 2008, at 17:54:10
In reply to Re: Do you know where your T....? » JayMac, posted by lucie lu on October 2, 2008, at 17:44:31
I'm in the process of contemplating changing T's as I relate much, much more to the potential new one than the one I have. I've Googled both, found the second one in a 'hood near mine. I know her car and that she's finishing her Master's. I connect to her in a way I don't with the one I have. I don't know if it's OK to ask for the switch (it's a therapy centre) but I suppose there is no harm in asking.
While I was living in a different city, I actually got to know my T's family and was welcome in their home. That was refreshing and I didn't bend therapeutic boundaries when there, outside the appointment in her office. It is this comfort I feel with the potential second T that I can't even imagine with the one I have.
Oh the debate of it all... but yes - I think it's normal to want to know them a little...
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