Posted by Nadezda on September 19, 2008, at 19:00:26
In reply to T thinks I might be shallow, posted by Quintal on September 19, 2008, at 15:32:44
Is it possible your T doesn't have the most sensitive command of language? I'm not sure what she means, to be honest. Maybe she just meant that you don't let people get to you or you don't open yourself up to certain types of relationships. Maybe she meant that your anxieties about yourself prevent you from responding to others more deeply or on their terms-- or seeing them clearly.
However, it would be odd IMO for a T to tell you your a shallow person. It's one thing to have a poker face-- and another to be superficial and not have emotional depth.
If it bothers you I would pursue it in more detail, because it strikes me as a clumsy way of saying something-- although what, isn't quite clear.
Nadezda
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