Posted by mair on March 25, 2008, at 20:56:43
In reply to Am I being childish? Mad at T for cancelling, posted by Poet on March 22, 2008, at 10:42:15
Poet
From the way you describe it, I would feel offended as well.
However, it sounds to me that this was a decision she made while she was at the clinic, because otherwise, I'd think she would have called you before she ever left for work.
So her explanation, no matter how feeble it sounds, may actually be true. I've certainly sat at work through many snow storms calculating whether I'm better off leaving sooner, before lots of snow accumulates, or later when maybe things have been plowed some. But my neighborhood is up a fairly steep hill and my house is down a pretty steep driveway so getting home can be very tricky sometimes. And she may have had you in mind even if she didn't say it. Maybe she didn't want you struggling to make it in.
All of that being said, it sounds as if she handled things poorly.
Let us know how it goes.
mair
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