Posted by ClearSkies on March 17, 2008, at 17:00:59
In reply to Re: Sorry, all I thought in my opening post.., posted by rskontos on March 17, 2008, at 11:57:20
I speak of babble often in therapy, but not of my struggles with it. I guess it's because I would dread being given the advice of walking away from the site when it becomes filled with too much conflict, and so I don't go there.
But I guess that as with some friendships, when you start to see the strengths and weaknesses in them, what I'm coming to terms with babble is that Dr Bob just isn't, at this time, able to be there for us. For whatever reason. It's meant that I posted about my distress on the Admin board, so that my feelings would be expressed. (Something to be put into that void.) And I'm definitely of the mind that the give and take of communication that Dr Bob professes to want to take place simply isn't occurring at this time. I've had to stop asking why? Because my questions were falling on deaf ears, on blind eyes.
Have I been able to go on and put this behind me? Not yet - I feel wounded by his silence. I don't mean to detract at all from the explanations that Dinah has put out there, but they should have come from Dr Bob, and that's how I feel about it.
I'd be really interested to read how you decide to address babble in therapy, if at all.
ClearSkies
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