Posted by sassyfrancesca on February 19, 2008, at 13:49:39
In reply to *sigh* another fight--thoughts? *long, Tfighttrig*, posted by raisinb on February 19, 2008, at 12:50:20
Holy Cow is all I can say. You say your T is "bursting into tears and withdrawing??!!"
This is bizarre. This is okay for a client; NOT for a therapist. She is supposed to be a professional, and in control of herself.....what is going on here ..sounds as a personal relationship.
There is something wrong with HER. You can go into different websites and look up what to look for in a therapist, etc.......I am studying (to be a t)....by the way......I've read plenty of material on the client/t relationship.....None of it includes the kind of behavior you describe....by a therapist. As a client we can behave any way we want. The therapist is supposed to have ethics and guidelines to follow.
I am so sorry; this is certainly not helping you! Can you consider going elsewhere?
Hugs, Francesca
Has she discussed goals with you?
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