Posted by Muffled on November 22, 2007, at 12:53:31
In reply to Re: (((((llllllluuurrrpppsssiiieeeNoOdle)))))))))) » Dory, posted by llurpsienoodle on November 22, 2007, at 12:05:41
funny you should mention vomit.
I have scoped out the location of the garbage can in my T's office for that very reason, its even got a bag liner in it. How fortuitous.
FWIW, I don't cry either in front of others. Never ever in front of T.
I seldom cry period.
Its not considered a permitted emotion in my book anyhow I guess. Its OK for OTHERS of course, but it does make me somewhat uncomfortable, cuz its strange to me. But I don't mind.
A time or two my T has had waterineye, but she hides it away fast. Mostly I rarely look at her so who knows.
I think mebbe the first time telling may be hardest, but after that, when you have experiencd acceptance, well, maybe its better some?
Maybe can you go into scientist mode, and talk dispassionately in the third person? Maybe consciously check emots and put them away at the door?
Talk about THAT KID. Separate her from yourself. She was who she was. You, the adult LL, are a diff person now. I dunno, maybe I give you dysfunctional suggestions?
Geeze, I wish I had better stuff to say.
Tell me if I am annoying.
Take care,
Gingerale is good.
M
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