Posted by RealMe on October 25, 2007, at 22:16:25
In reply to Re: Fake people irritate me, posted by rskontos on October 25, 2007, at 19:05:21
This is part of the problem for people who have been abused. We think we can spot "the abusers," but this is typically only true if they resemble in some way the people who abused us, either by sex or personality style, or looks, etc. The problem is that as much as we have trouble trusting, and I most certainly do, we still end up getting fooled by people who appear to be in sheeps skin but are actually ( I am not going to say wolves as I am a wolf person, so) fake and not who they seem to be. They can seem nice and friendly and caring, but they are can turn on you in a flash and be evil and nasty. I know several people like this who I thought were friends, and they turned out to stab me in the back. I have learned that I choose female friends who are like this even though none of my friends from early years were like this. I am still trying to figure that one out.
RealMe
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