Posted by muffled on October 9, 2007, at 13:23:41
In reply to Re: So...some thots.. » muffled, posted by Poet on October 9, 2007, at 9:08:59
> When I don't feel like talking, my T always says "it's your session, what do you want to talk about?" So I think if you do go see your T, talk about what you want to, need to and are comfortable saying.
*ya, my mind freezes up entirely when I get there mostly. Though my t has consciously and successfully tried to engage the 'scientist' part of me, and that helps...
> I think everyone has "others" too. I'd like to see my T get angry. She sits there so calm and laid back. I'd like to see the real T sometime, but that's probably a boundary. I wonder if when she shuts her door behind me if she starts hitting something? I know she doesn't scream, I'd hear it.*LOL!!! Wouldn't it be SOMEthing?!
Being a T must totally suck at times...
I am SOOOOO glad you think that everybody got others too!!! Its a theory I have...
> Let your T know you're angry, nothing wrong with a session on anger. Maybe throw a pillow at her. Last week I threatened to throw my shoe at her, but she said pillows only. I'd have better aim with something solid, pillows don't have much impact.**LOL, there didn't used to be pillows, but a coupla weeks ago pillows appaeared and I THOT OF YOU!!! I kinda try and stay away from anger. The power of my rage within frightens me...when I was younger I would get frustrated moving irrigation pipes, i'd muster up a rage and lift ASTOUNDING amounts of weight and balance them(3" x 40' pipes with lots of water comming out the ends, heavy and awkward...)In retrospect I have NO IDEA how I was physically able to do it? I'm not very big... But now my body is wrecked from doing stuff like that. Guess it was good getting the rage out, but it wrecked me physically...
> Take care of all of your parts.
**:-) Thanks for that Poet.
You take care too.
M
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