Posted by muffled on October 9, 2007, at 12:51:01
In reply to Re: So...some thots.. » muffled, posted by RealMe on October 8, 2007, at 23:45:54
> Guess what muffled, it sounds like your anger with T is exactly what to talk about, and what that anger is about. She needs to know stuff from you like how it hurts to have her not return calls, or to have her not understand about the others. Talk about husband can wait.
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> RealMe**manoman, I just not communicating very well these days, here or IRL.
So T did call, but I was busy and couldn't answer. She DID say I could call back "if I wanna talk", I dunno, mebbe she was mad I didn't answer, cuz I knew she would call in A.M. sometime, but I was not able to. I HATE the phone, it weirds me out. I get nervous cuz I can't detect anything but voice, so then its all Toughie and I feel like an utter idiot...
Anyhow t is real good bout retuning calls these days. What she has forgotten in the past is to call when I thot she said she would...but she been good last whiles. So longs she writes it down it her book its all good. Compareds to some of the T stuff I read bout here, my T is very reliable. I think alot is I get oversensitive is all.
I think she trying real hard my T is.
I just being chicken.
Ya, spose my ikid is mad some, but truly, she needs to get over it. My T has done nothing wrong, and in fact has gone above and beyond the call of duty w/me. So I have no excuses. Just kid being a kid. But she needs to get the reality and get over it all.
T is not psychodynamic, she primarily CBT trained, and as I recall,mebbe rogerian? or something?
Gonna have to relook at that.
Anyhow, this is long winded.
I just kinda lost I guess...
thanks for listening.
M
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