Posted by B2chica on September 13, 2007, at 10:48:23
In reply to Re: Do you think it would help to know... » JoniS, posted by pianissimo on September 13, 2007, at 10:04:18
i would only want to know how she feels about me as a patient...like if behind my back she says to another T or someone...."wow, i got this really messed up one this week"...or thinks negatively or poorly or ESPECIALLY stereotyped me.
THEN i would want to know. cuz i want help from someone who will respect me for me, and accept my 'issues' honestly and not look down on me.Luckily i feel that i can read people pretty darn well. and that i would hope i would have picked up on that. She seems pretty genuine. and from her comments, she seems to respect my wishes and my issues. so all's good....for now.
and i agree with pianissimo in that i think it can be a pandora's box. cuz i think they could love us not enough, or too much...even depending on the week we go in...(speaking from personal experience here). somedays i wanted my old T to care very deeply about me...i think it's more of a 'rescue/save me kinda feelings', and other days i Wanted him to hate me so that i could let out my anger at him and tell him bad stuff about childhood and NEVER have to see him again.
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just be careful Joni that your feelings with T don't hinder your getting better.
(((((cares))))))
b2c.
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