Posted by antigua3 on August 13, 2007, at 9:28:54
In reply to Re: ***** Long, tedious and triggery ***** » Squiggles, posted by Tamar on August 13, 2007, at 9:20:53
Whoa, you just pretty much described my relationship with my Pdoc. He's never late, but he won't return calls (which makes him unreliable in my book) or get "involved" in our relationship.
What you want to achieve with your T is what I want with my Pdoc. He has very strict boundaries, but I don't think he's holding up his end of the "therapeutic relationship." I tend to think he is afraid of me, can't handle me or just doesn't want to get involved.
I see him tomorrow and I'm going to bring this up again (we've discussed this before). If I don't feel good about how it turns out, I'm going to find another Pdoc. It's interfering with my life and I don't want to worry about this anymore. Sometimes I wonder if I've let myself get into another abusive relationship and if I have, I have to get right out of it.
I need things from him that he either doesn't see or refuses to give.
I'm sorry you're going through this, but I certainly understand. When my pdoc is "on" it's just fantastic.
best,
antigua
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